MCZU Article : : Looking through the teenager's eyes

Written By:

Suraj Bhattarai ( 2002 Batch )

Golden moment of our life, especially teenage, where we see only blossomed flowers ,blue sky ,beautiful girls and many more, defined as the age where there is full of happiness and laughter. No doubt, there is no responsibility but energetic time and……………. Despite this, is this glorious moment of our life out of problems and always holds good?

Of course not, being human, though they are in childhood…in youth or in old age, they are suffering from problems of their own kinds with respect to their age. But problem of young is deviated from normal tract. Which means problems of them are nothing for other age groups, they think it is only fault of their age. That is to say, problem is simple and exotic concerning with family, education, ego, culture, love, tragedy …which anguish them too much.

Even though in teenage, one gets maximum happiness, joy, support, way to success from their family but why teenagers feel that family is a big problem for their own way? It seems that `family’s heart beats for them but their heart beat for others’. The main fact of this problem is generation gap because teenager’s life is not an ordinary life. In this life they want to explore, wants to know and entails many new things whether good or bad, thinks to be a step forward from others. But they do not know whether their ego problem is always right or not. Because their ego problem makes them blind, so they think everything they do is absolutely right. But family who is responsible for them seems to be corrective and want to make correction on young’s energetic ego which is not digestible for them. It makes teenager think negatively to their family and criticize them a lot.

Education /study, on which teenager bound is also one of the hypertensive problem which is the one and only "do and die" condition on young people. Study, they have to complete with or without their likelihood, Obviously, creating a lot of burden on young people. But is this problem really a problem for them? Or is created as a rule of our society, where they live in or is it a dream of family they have to fulfill or is the basic need of their life that they have to do? Whatever is, study became torturing factor as well as tension for them.

Not much, cultural problem. Every society, countries have their own culture and tradition, which all have to obey of their own kinds. But in teenager, some deviation is found from society and imitating culture of others, which creating a problem for them because that imitating culture may not be digestible for their own particular society.

As we know that Shakespeare on his thought secern life into 6 ages. Among them there’s an age of love on young heart, which beat no other than in this age especially for opposite sex. This emotion is found from shaver to very old age but is stronger in teenagers; medically talking, this is the effect of sexual development and maturation.

Most of them fall in love on first sight while others fall in their friends ragging. By one or the other way they all fall in love. Most of them obviously enjoy their love life while others are deprived from lover’s response. Those who get response; they live their life happily ever after. Where as other, who have tragedy, get a big blow on their heart. So that the sweetest problem of love that they always want to welcome may become more bitter and sour which lead young heart to say ………….

‘ Why Fish is better than gals??`
- If you catch a fish, you don’t have to worry about its mother.
- If u aren’t in the mood for fish you can have buff
- U can catch keep fish in live well until u are ready for them.
- If u don’t like what u catch u can throw it
- Fish don’t care what size your worm is
-You don’t need a big rod to catch a nice fish
- U can use the same old line every time to catch a fish
- It doesn’t matter how cold it is to catch a fish is
- U can catch fish any time.